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Birthday Quiz: Fun Questions About the Guest of Honor
Two formats and about forty questions on the guest of honor, from childhood to recent memories, to liven up a birthday without embarrassing anyone.
A quiz about the guest of honor is one of the easiest birthday party activities to put together: guests guess their tastes, memories and quirks, and the birthday girl or guy reacts to every answer. Here are two ways to set it up, about forty questions sorted by theme and a few precautions so the surprise makes everyone happy, starting with the person you’re celebrating.
Two formats, depending on the surprise
Format 1: the guest of honor makes the quiz. A few days before the party, they create their ten-question quiz and send the link to the guests. Everyone plays on their own, and the leaderboard is revealed at the party, when the cake comes out. It’s the simplest version: zero prep for the organizer.
Format 2: the surprise quiz. The organizer writes the questions with help from one or two people who know the guest of honor well: a parent, a brother or sister, a childhood friend. On the big day, guests answer on paper in teams, then the guest of honor reveals the real answers. They find out what their loved ones know about them at the same time as everyone else.
Questions about childhood
Prepare these with the family: they’re often the answers that surprise friends the most.
- What did they want to be when they grew up?
- What was their favorite cartoon?
- What were they obsessed with at age ten?
- What nickname did the family call them?
- Which food did they flat-out refuse to eat?
- Which toy went everywhere with them?
- What legendary trouble did they get into as a kid?
- What was their favorite game on family vacations?
- Which after-school activity did they quit after three practices?
- Which pet did they dream of having?
Questions about their tastes today
- Their favorite thing to order at a restaurant?
- The song that always gets them dancing?
- The show they’re watching right now?
- Their ideal birthday dessert?
- Their go-to drink on a night out?
- The gift they never want to get again?
- Their dream destination for the next vacation?
- Their favorite weekend pastime?
- Their signature word or catchphrase?
- The one thing they’d bring to a desert island?
Questions about shared memories
- Where did they celebrate their birthday last year?
- What was their best trip ever?
- Which concert or show made the biggest impression on them?
- What are they proudest of this year?
- Which laughing fit do they still talk about?
- Which celebrity have they run into?
- What’s their worst party outfit, in their own opinion?
- What challenge did they take on recently?
- Which dish did they cook for the first time this year?
- Which group memory comes up at every get-together?
Questions by milestone birthday
| Birthday | Sample questions |
|---|---|
| 18th | Their favorite subject in high school? The first concert they want to see? Plans after graduation: all mapped out or no idea yet? |
| 30th | Their ideal city to live in? The job they would have liked to try? Their golden rule for a good party? |
| 40th | The big hit from when they were twenty? The fashion trend they regret? The project they want to launch this decade? |
| 50th and up | Their first car… in a photo, with no license plate showing? The trip that changed them? The advice they’d give their twenty-year-old self? |
Pick ten to fifteen questions in total. Any more than that and the activity takes over the party.
Staging it on the big day
- The right moment. Just before the cake, when everyone has arrived and the mood is relaxed.
- Answers with a story. The guest of honor reads each real answer and tells the story behind it. That’s the heart of the activity.
- A prize that fits. The winning team can get the first slice of cake or pick the next song.
- A keepsake. Print the questions and answers on a sheet signed by all the guests: a gift that costs almost nothing.
For a longer party with several rounds and teams, borrow ideas from the complete quiz night game plan.
Surprise, yes; embarrassment, no
A birthday quiz should make the guest of honor happy. Skip questions about an ex, their weight, their real age if they’d rather not say, or a hard period in their life. If you ask the family for stories, let them know the anecdotes will be read out in front of everyone.
Childhood photos and party videos call for the same tact. Ask before sharing the photos shown during the quiz, and let the guest of honor choose which ones appear. Once something is online, you can’t really take it back: as CISA, the US cybersecurity agency, puts it, there is no “delete” button on the internet, and even a post removed seconds later may already have been seen.
What about the noise?
A birthday party with a quiz, music and victory cheers can be heard through the walls. Noise rules depend on your city and your building, and many places have evening quiet hours, so a little courtesy goes a long way. A note in the lobby or a text to the neighbors the day before, letting them know about the party and roughly when it will wrap up, saves a lot of tension.
More ideas for the party
A family party with kids? Pick from the 40 family quiz questions. A bachelorette or bachelor party on the horizon? The bachelorette or bachelor party quiz uses the same idea with questions about the couple. And to avoid questions that reveal too much, read up on the questions you should never share.